Some men think that keeping a woman interested can be a difficult thing to do. Women can be confusing, but most of them are similar in what they like. In all honesty, keeping women interested is pretty easy. You just have to know a little bit about what type of woman she is in order to grab and hold her attention.
Don’t Tell Her Everything
“Keep some secrets from her”
Many men like to impress women by telling them everything they can about themselves. The reason for this is because a lot of men have been fooled into believing that if they are completely honest with a woman, it betters their chances of hooking up with them. The truth is that when you tell a woman too much about yourself early on, you end up making her lose interest in you. Women are naturally curious and they love playing detective. If she feels like there is no mysterious element of you to figure out, she will deem you as boring and will have no interest in hooking up with you.
Instead of trying to impress women by showing her how much of an honest guy you can be, you should start holding back some information from her. You will have to figure out what information to keep from her. It is best that you don’t hold the type of information from her that may make her think that you’re a predator or anything like that. Don’t tell her that you are a spy and that your job is classified. She will think you are joking, and if you tell her that you’re serious, she will think that you’re insane. Instead, you should try telling her that you work for a detective agency, but that you aren’t a detective. Unless you are willing to pretend to be a detective to impress her.
“Don’t let her feel bored”
Routine is nice for some people, but when you’re dating, being spontaneous can only work to your advantage. While women like to plan ahead, they will definitely be impressed if you spring something exciting on them. For instance, give her a call and asking her if she’s doing anything. If she says she isn’t, tell her that you’re on her way to pick her up and that the two of you are going to have a picnic. If she complains that she isn’t ready, tell her that she’s gorgeous no matter what. When you call her, make sure that you haven’t already left your place. You do actually want to give her a little bit of time to make herself look decent.
When it comes to being spontaneous, the trick is to actually have stuff planned out. We know it’s a contradiction, but she won’t be able to tell the difference. It will be spontaneous to her even though you may have been planning things for weeks. If she thinks you’re full of surprises, she will always want to know what you will come up with next.
Keeping women interested isn’t difficult. In fact, we would say it’s pretty easy. All you have to do is make her think you’re mysterious and surprising.