It’s Going to Take More Than a “Hi”: How to Get Her to Respond to Your Messages

The right message is going to make a world of difference when it comes to having successful hookups. Fortunately, we really know how to talk to women, and we can teach you to, too.

You can’t just say ‘hi.’

Ladies on these sites want more substance nowadays in your messages. That’s why you can’t just say ‘hi’, because she’s going to be bored with you already. Sadly, too many men do this.


This is why we made this sex dating guide. We want you to know what really works and what doesn’t, and your e-mail really needs to be able to stand out from the crowd.

The biggest part of our how-to had to cover this, because so many men flop here. Fortunately, your e-mail just really needs three main parts: a compliment (about her eyes, hair, or smile), something pertaining to her interests, and a hook.

What’s the hook?

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This is the part that everyone seems to forget. If you’ve taken the time to compliment her–always, always focusing on a part of her body that’s just her eyes, hair, or smile–first, then you need to stick to her interests after that particular part.

Talk about her interests. Bring up an event that you think she’ll like, or talk about a mutual interest that the two of you share. Remember, she can’t just be a pretty face.

You need chemistry, and that’s where the hook comes in. With the right hook, you’ll be able to reel her in. It’s just a question or something that otherwise encourages her to respond.

Without it, she’ll ignore you.

Ask her if she’d like to meet you at a certain event. Ask her if she likes a certain thing. Anything to get her respond is a hook, really, and that’s what you have to remember.

If you can get this down pat, you’re golden. You’ll really be able to succeed!


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